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Being Responsible

We all want our children to grow up to be responsible adults. We want them to feel, think, and act with respect for themselves and for others. To do this, children need lots of help from parents. Learning to be responsible includes learning to:

Here are some things you can do at home:

Responsibility Builders

Honesty, the Best Policy

for young children

  1. Tell the story about the boy who cried "Wolf!" He did it so many times to get attention that when the wolf did come, no one believed him.

  2. Ask your children if anyone had ever lied to them. How did that make them feel?

  3. When you make a promise to your children, try to keep it. It may seem small to you, but it means a lot to them.

Helping Out

for older children

  1. As children grow older, think of added ways they can help at home.

  2. Discuss the new duties with them. Avoid making the duties seem like a punishment. Instead, you might say they require more ability which your child now has.

  3. New tasks should stretch a child's abilities and make him or her feel satisfied with doing good work. Praise a job well done, especially a new challenge.

Getting to Know Others

for children of all ages

  1. Set a good example. Act with respect toward others. Always make clear that prejudice is wrong and that all of us are equal, no matter what our color, gender, or background is.

  2. Show an interest in learning about and from others--neighbors and relatives, and from books about our own and other civilizations.

  3. Encourage your child to learn about many different lands and people, to learn another language, and to read stories about children from all over the world. Show your child how you try to see things from others point of view.

  4. Listen carefully when your child wants to tell you things they have discovered about history, geography, religions, art, and ways of life.

Resources: Information was taken from Helping Your Child Learn Responsible Behavior. For more information, please contact the National Library of Education, 555 New Jersey Avenue, NW, Washington, DC 20208, telephone 1-800-424- 1616. Other materials from the Family Involvement Partnership for Learning--for families, schools, employers, and community groups--can also be obtained by calling 1-800-USA-LEARN.

U.S. Department of Education
Richard W. Riley

Office of Educational Research and Improvement
Sharon P. Robinson
Assistant Secretary

National Institute on Student Achievement, Curriculum, and Assessment

National Institute on the Education of At-Risk Students

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